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How to Not Marry a Coward
The last thing you girls want is to marry a coward. You don’t want to be stuck to a Coward for the rest of your life. And if you think you can change him.. I am telling you, you can’t. Jesus needs to change him first. I have some instances of telling an engaged couple…
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Baby Step 6: Marriage Mentors
Baby Step 6: FIND A MENTOR WHO COULD HELP YOU THROUGH YOUR REBUILDING PROCESS You can’t do it without any outside help. You need to learn this as early as now. Maybe you are newly married and have not encountered any major fights yet, I ask you to get a mentor and interview successful couples…
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Baby Step 5 to a Marriage Makeover
Baby Step 5: KNOW YOUR ROLES AS HUSBAND AND WIFE AND STICK TO IT. I’ll make this brief. Husband’s role: Leader, protector, provider, spiritual head, , decision maker, pursues his wife Wife’s role Suitable helper, encourager, helps in decision making process, number 1 fan of husband. Now honestly assess where you are in your God-given…
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Baby Step 4 to a Marriage Makeover
Baby Step 4: DATE YOUR SPOUSE AND TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEMS YOU ARE CURRENTLY FACING. IT WOULD BE ADVISABLE TO HAVE AN OBJECTIVE PERSON PRESENT IN THIS TALK. Face the brutal facts! Youre marriage is not where it is because of the problems you are currently facing but it could go where God wants it…
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BABY STEP 3 to a MARRIAGE MAKEOVER
Baby Step 3: DATE YOUR SPOUSE AND TALK ABOUT THE POSITIVE THINGS, MEMORIES AND ATTRIBUTES THAT YOU BOTH HAVE AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK. Most of the time we look at the negative things in a relationship forgetting all the positive things your spouse has done for you. It is always the mistakes and never…