Baby Step 4: DATE YOUR SPOUSE AND TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEMS YOU ARE CURRENTLY FACING. IT WOULD BE ADVISABLE TO HAVE AN OBJECTIVE PERSON PRESENT IN THIS TALK.

Face the brutal facts! Youre marriage is not where it is because of the problems you are currently facing but it could go where God wants it to be by how you react to the problem.

There is always a choice: be better or be bitter.

Better is always better.

Just a tip: Have a trusted friend present when you talk about your problems. An objective person could help sort out your problems and craft a solution. I recommend calling your small group leader or a pastor to walk this baby step with you.