on marriage

February 06, 2010

boy’s room

Just typing the word “BOY’S ROOM” gives me endless memories and pictures of my room when I was young and still living with my parents. I remember our INTERCOM with the words written BOYS ROOM – yeah that’s my room. In that room I am the king except when mom barges in and tells me to wake up because its already late!

In my boy’s room you will find my:

– PUGAD BABOY COLLECTIONS

– GI JOE COLLECTIONS

– NBA CARDS COLLECTION

-MY GELLI DE BELEN POSTERS / MIKEE COJUANGCO PIN UPS

– MY JORDAN, JAWORSKI, PIDO JARENCIO POSTERS

I love my boy’s room. I would never give up my room for anything till Thammie came along.

Since I’ve decided to marry my wife – the boy’s room was no longer my room. The house I grew up in is no longer my house. I had to give up my NBA CARDS, let go off my basketball posters, destory my Gelli de Belen and Mikee posters ( but have kept my Pugad Baboy comics with me (mwahahahaha) and live in a new house – because the moment I committed my life I lost my right to live in the BOY’S ROOM.

Feb 5. 2005 I decided to get me a MAN’S ROOM. It means leaving the house I grew up in and starting a new life with my wife. No more Basketball posters, Mikee pinups and action figures. It also means no more DADDY and MOMMY barging in the room to see if I have brushed my teeth, have I arrived from work/school, or have said my prayers.

Most men don’t get this. They marry the girl of their dreams, promised her a good life but decides to stay in his BOY’S ROOM with his wife, and the basketball posters, the pin ups, the toys and MAMA who knocks on the door to check if you are practicing safe sex with your wife. You still live with a curfew, your wife is like a mistress who can’t move at home because she was given only privilege to fix the boy’s room!

I think it is about time for married men to leave the boy’s room and get yourself a MAN’S ROOM.

Gen. 2:24  For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

Matt. 19:5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh?

Mark 10:7 ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,


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